Do you dread going to work? Do you get that Sunday night anxiety that grows throughout Sunday afternoon and prevents you from really relaxing and enjoying the remainder of your weekend? If you said yes to these questions you are absolutely not alone.
Some people dread work because it requires too much in too short of a time—they are behind, overwhelmed, and scrambling constantly every day without time to breathe or think.
Some people dread work because there are people there they don’t trust and they feel they always have to be on guard—they simply don’t feel safe.
Others work in chaotic and reactionary workplaces where they never know what will happen next, or what they might get blamed for.
Some people are bored and feel their time and talent are being wasted. Some don’t have the skills to do their job and so feel trepidation each day about what they will be asked to do.
There are million reasons why people dread work.
This feeling is making our entire workforce sick!
You know that rush you get when you almost get in a car accident? You feel an intense rush throughout your body—your heart beats faster, your breath quickens, and you often get a tingly feeling in your limbs. That is due to the release of hormones that allow you to react quickly to respond to danger in your life.
Once the danger is passed, you can feel that hormone draining out of your body as your heartbeat goes back to normal, your breathing returns to normal, and you begin to feel safe again.
As humans, this is a normal response to danger, fear and stress.
The problem is, if you feel stressed from your job—if you don’t feel safe or if you feel dread or danger, you maintain a high level of this hormone (cortisol) in your body all the time. Your body is constantly pumping out cortisol, which can wreak havoc with your health. Long term effects of elevated cortisol are associated with:
Blood sugar imbalances and diabetes
Weight gain and obesity
Immune system suppressions—colds, increased risk of cancer, food allergies.
Gastrointestinal Problems—Irritable bowel syndrome, ulcers, colitis.
Fertility problems
Insomnia, chronic fatigue, thyroid disorders, depression and anxiety.
People drink, get angry and take their stress out on their families.
Not a pretty picture.
Only so much exercise and good diet can relieve stress responses when the stress never goes away.
The good news is that things can get better. The team can get more functional. Interventions to improve leadership and team processes can work. Relationships can get better and issues can be resolved.
Sometimes it takes someone from outside the organization to work on creating solutions and find ways to make them work. As a leader, your job is to make sure your people are in a positive environment so they can do the work they need to and want to.
Don’t create an environment that makes you or your team sick. Work together to create trust and a healthy environment so you can change the world!